Monday, July 27, 2009
Biwako
Friday, July 24, 2009
We work almost as hard as we play
We also visited our friend K, who is studying there this term, and her advisor, with whom we had a delightful French lunch. J's favorite part of our trip was coming home. He's not a big fan, yet, of research institutes and French cafes.
Since then, S has been finishing up his classes. Pictured below is his last (unofficial) class meeting at Kyodai.
We've been wandering around our neighborhood recently, and have found many interesting things within just a few blocks of our apartment, including a Buddhist temple (which we can see from our window) and a small inari (fox) shrine. And yes, that is a parasol I am carrying. It's hot here, OK?
J has been working hard, too--at the department store playland, the wading pool at the children's park, and wherever else he can find little kids and a little freedom from his boring adults.
Monday, July 20, 2009
Akashi and Ashiya
Friday, July 17, 2009
Gion Matsuri, Grand Parade
This is what a bored baby looks like during a very long parade. The high point for him was when another little kid (also wearing his yukata) stopped to say hello.
Thursday, July 16, 2009
Gion Eve, III
When J and I got out of the Keihan station at Shijo, I thought it was thundering and instantly regretting my decision. Turns out we were hearing Taiko drumming from up the avenue. We enjoyed the big drums (J was mesmorized), and especially liked hearing a monk play shakuhachi (Japanese flute) accompanied by a giant drum. The flute and drum together sounded like a developing thunderstorm, and, in fact, it started to rain a little during the performance. Now that's Gion magic.
Further up the street, there were giant puppets (colorful horses) dancing, which J seemed to like. After a brief stop for matcha ice cream, we wandered around the Yasaka Shrine (Gion's main shrine, and the host of the festival), which featured a kabuki performance on its stage.
It's really something to wander Kyoto's streets during this festival. We're used to crowded sidewalks, but walking with thousands of people down the middle of Shijo avenue makes everything seem different and strange. You'll have to take my word for it--as is often the case when I go out alone carrying the baby, I downsized the backpack and didn't take the camera. I did get some photos and video on my cell phone, but I haven't figured out how to get those on the computer yet.
We'll definitely take the camera tomorrow--we're hoping to catch the Grand Parade and see the giant floats in action. We still can't believe we have an apartment just a few train stops away from the Gion Matsuri.
Gion Eve, II
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Gion Matsuri
Baby salons
Before coming to Japan, I did a little research on statistics and attitudes regarding breastfeeding here. Coming from Vermont, where breastfeeding in public is at least tolerated (if not expected), we felt a lot of support for our choice to raise J this way. I was concerned, however, about spending so much time in a culture where breastfeeding is slightly less common and where, according to some web information, public breastfeeding is a little less expected. We've spent many frantic moments trying to figure out where to feed an increasingly loud, cranky baby, and it's true that I'm not as comfortable feeding J here in public as I am back home. However, we try not to let this get in the way of travel and tourism, assuming that we'll figure it out as we go. My mother made us a pretty nursing shawl, which has helped.
Another thing that has helped in a major way is the existence of baby "salons," sometimes called baby rooms or nursing rooms. Most department stores, newer tourist sites, airports, some train stations and trains, and even places like baseball stadiums, have private places to nurse babies. These range from small curtained areas (like fitting rooms with comfortable chairs) to major productions which include changing tables, cribs, juice vending machines, sinks, toys, and microwaves. One of our favorites is in the Takashimaya store in downtown Kyoto, which has, among other amenities, "Babysnack"--a snack bar with attendants who sell and heat up organic baby food.
There are more elaborate baby salons in major stores. Hankyu department store at Umeda in Osaka (a large train station we pass through in that region) has a baby room with an actual nurse who will offer nursing rooms, take away dirty diapers (!), answer questions about baby care, weigh and measure your baby, and be otherwise helpful. The baby salon at the Lotte department store in Seoul is even more elaborate. There, mothers (and fathers) can take advantage of a darkened sleeping room (with rows of cribs), as well as a nurse who will help with childcare (I had J weighed and measured at this baby room, which was helpful since he was losing weight due to the stomach bug he had while we were in Korea). My favorite part of this baby salon was the nursing room, which had soft music and relaxing lighting.
I have mixed feelings, as do many nursing mothers (from my Internet research) about baby rooms. Of course, we hope that breastfeeding can be seen as natural and good, and perhaps baby rooms marginalize people who are trying to give their babies the best possible start in life. However, nursing has never been entirely easy for me (or J), and having pleasant, comfortable, secure, and private places to do so has made life here so much better for us. And the other amenities of baby salons (from changing tables to just having a place to rest and relax in stores, train stations, etc.) are quite nice. Baby salons are also a good place to interact with other mothers and fathers, at least to exchange "kawaii-s" (cute, isn't he?) and talk about how old our babies are. I will miss baby salons when we head home.
When we first arrived, we couldn't always find baby rooms. Now, we know the "code." We recognize the kanji for "nursing room," the spoken language for "can I breastfeed here?," the little bottle icons on maps signifying a nursing room, and the fact that most large stores will have such a place in the baby clothes area if you just look around. We're also adept at seeking out baby rooms where they're not evident. Once, not finding an appropriate place to change and nurse in and around a large temple (and with an increasingly hungry and tired baby), we asked at a Koban (police box) where we could change the baby. The two police officers happily invited us in to their large bathroom, brought a chair for "miruku" (milk--nursing), and made small talk in Japanese with S about the weather and baseball while I took care of the baby. They made us feel like we were the most interesting thing that had happened there all day (which may have been true). I've also nursed the baby in the main (air conditioned and nicely appointed) inner office of a major temple, and a back room at a temple in Korea. We've found that people are very helpful and accomodating if we know what to ask.
I enjoy watching the Hanshin Tigers play major league baseball on television (about the only thing we ever watch), and S has offered to take us all to a game in nearby Nishinomiya. I said, sarcastically, "if they have a nursing room at Koshien Stadium, we can go." They do. Three of them.
Juukagetsu
Sunday, July 12, 2009
Takaragaike Children's Park
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Kiyomizudera: heights and tights (spaces)
The entrance to the "womb." J needed a good drink after that experience!Yum: matcha slushy!Kyoto Tower and Kyoto Station (The Cube--to the left of the tower) from the platform.
July 7th is Tanabata, the day the stars Altair and Vega (long lost lovers, according to Chinese legend adopted by Japan) are allowed to cross the great river (the Milky Way) to be together on the seventh day of the seventh month. Kids write their wishes on paper tied to decorated bamboo trees--these can be found at temples and shrines, as well as train stations and supermarkets. Though the picture here is of trees at Kodaiji temple, we wrote our wish at Sanjusangendo temple--peace and love for everyone.
Monday, July 6, 2009
I do work, sometimes
The presentation was titled "Feminst Ethics in the American Tradition" and covered pragmatist feminism (Jane Addams), care ethics, and ecofeminism. The questions were very good and I enjoyed a bit of professional interaction after spending much of my time this summer reading "Hippos Go Berserk," "Hey, Wake Up," "Peek-A-Who?" and that sort of thing. I should note that I finished writing the presentation in S's office at the last minute with a squirmy baby in one hand and the laptop in the other. I can bring home the (soy) bacon, too.
The lecture was followed by a very nice evening at an izakaya (pub) with an interesting assortment of sushi. J enjoyed lots of attention from the graduate students who accompanied us. The next day, we were joined by S's host professor for lunch on the 26th floor of our hotel (with a great view of Kobe and the harbor), a nice ride to the top of a mountain on a gondola, and a leisurely walk down through an extensive herb and rose garden. It happened to be lavendar picking day, so we were handed scissors and invited to take home 20 sprigs each, which are still gracing our kitchen table.
Kobe is an interesting city--very cosmopolitan and international, due to its extensive harbor. Much of Kobe is new, having been rebuilt after the Great Hanshin Earthquake of 1995 (which killed over 6,000 people). On the note of earthquakes, I finally got around (over 2/3 into our time here) to packing an earthquake emergency bag to put by the door. Let's hope we don't need it!
Here are some pictures of the presentation (in case any of my colleagues are Jaybird followers and wonder if I ever work anymore) and our vacation day in Kobe. I'd like to spend more time in the herb garden, but the gondola was pretty scary (especially while I was thinking of the earthquake).